We’ve all been there — standing in front of an audience, heart racing… and suddenly, everything falls apart.
But Here’s The Thing:
A setback like this, doesn’t define you. How you respond does!
Try This Quick Exercise:
Think back to a time when your performance didn’t go the way you had hoped.
Now use the So What – Now What concept.
Ask yourself:
👉 “So what – Now what?”
Keep asking until you uncover a clear next step forward.
For example:
“I messed up.”
→ So what? Now what?
“I learned I wasn’t fully ready – so I’ll prepare better next time and that preparation will allow me to show up confident with unwavering self trust.”
👉This is where unshakeable confidence begins. It doesn’t come from perfection — it comes from preparation.
Every time you prepare with intention, you build skill. The more skill (competence) you develop the more your confidence grows.
Competence → Confidence
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